No two places on earth can be exactly alike, especially between the most hi-tech advanced country like the United States of America and a developing agricultural one, Myanmar (Burma). The reason is every single country has its unique qualities and identities. The United States is very diverse and gigantic, while Myanmar has only eight nationalities and a small land. Perhaps the freeways in the States have full of cars and public transportation, but one will see pony-carts on the roads in some province of Myanmar. Since I was born and grew up Myanmar, I have inherited its cultural identities a lot. Now that I am living in America, I understand I still need to adapt the new culture even though it is not the one I accustomed to. Generally, these two countries are very distinct in the aspect of woman freedom, education system, socioeconomic status and cultural identities.
Regarding about freedom, United States of America is a very independent country no matter what gender a person is. In present days, women have the same right as Thomas Jefferson writes in the “Declaration of Independence,” “All men are created equal, that they are endowed by their creator with certain inalienable rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness” (Jacobus 262). For instance, American women have equal opportunities with men at school, at workplaces and political positions. They are not treated inferior to men, so they are powerful enough to believe in their own. Unlike Myanmar women, they are able to survive without men. In other word, they do not depend on men but pursue their life of happiness and necessity by themselves.
Contrary to this, the aspect of freedom in the States is not applicable to the life of women in Myanmar. Most of the Myanmar women do not work but depend of their fathers when they are single or rely on husbands after they get married. I have never heard my mother worked outside in her life. She has never earned her own money, but my father provides her and family with enough incomes. My mom seems happy and delightful about her no-worries life, and she takes good care of her husband and children for her whole life. She cooks for us, takes us to school, helps us make homework, tells fairy tales when we go to bad, cries when we are in pain and so on. She is the best and most wonderful angel we have ever met. However, I did not think my mom need to sacrifice all her time and freedom to us. Hence, I asked her once, “Why don’t you save some time for yourself, mother?” I have seen that she has devoted her whole life for only her family but she forgot to enjoy herself.
Her scenario of being a mother is the stereotype of women in Myanmar. They spend most of their time with doing house-work, taking care of their husbands, childbearing and child-rearing. This is one of my least favorite aspects of Myanmar culture because I love freedom. I do not think I am able to do the entire obligation my mom did to her husband and children....